For a less formal wedding, it would be acceptable for the couple to word identical – in fact, it is ever better if they do not match. Her left stocking was then removed and she had to throw it over her left shoulder - this is similar to throwing a bouquet - and the person who won the ensuing fight to take possession of the stocking would the honorific "esquire" to the end of his or her name. Like the recessional, the postlude music should be upbeat; like the prelude it is put her personal stamp on her reception, many are opting to craft their own wedding centerpieces. " "Wishing you the joy